[If nothing else, Oda is used to the suicidal talk by now. It's something he can't let bother him too much, but that doesn't mean he enjoys it - tries to let it pass, more or less, and focus on what his friend is really trying to say.]

Even with everything going on, you've managed to have a much more interesting week than me. Is the woman you're marrying different than the one you were flirting with at the bar?

[Look. He's just trying to figure things out, here. The jury is out as to whether or not he's actually worried a real marriage is on the table.]